关于第欧根尼的一点想法

今天早上在上班的路上听到了关于第欧根尼的一篇文章。原谅我的孤陋寡闻,第一次听说这个人,不过以前倒是听说过犬儒主义、犬儒派。

对于这个人、对于这篇文章有点感触,想在这里把它记录下来,作为备忘。

文章的作者吴军说第欧根尼对他有四条影响:

  1. 做人要自立、自信
  2. 有些事情不是必须做
  3. 降低生活中物质需求
  4. 学会对人表达善意

自立 人立于天地之间,必然有我们的出路。有了这个自信,作者吴军才敢于一会儿离开这个单位去读书,一会儿离开另一个单位去做自己的事情。社交网络上有一句签名:“千山我独行(不需相送)”。

生活中很多物质需求,想通了其实可有可无。有些时候,对物质看重的程度稍微轻那么一点点,幸福感会增强很多。

要对我表达善意,就别占用我的休息和工作时间。就像亚历山大不要挡第欧根尼晒太阳一样。

在听这篇文章、看这篇文章的时候,对我影响比较大的就是第二条:“有些事情真的不是必须做的

第欧根尼说“从雅典到马其顿的距离,和从马其顿到雅典的是一样长的。”需要我的帮助就要拿出你的诚意。

在信息时代,新的生产关系中企业和人的关系不再是雇佣和被雇佣的关系,而是一种契约关系。

个人为单位做事情,单位给个人提供发展的平台,最后达到双赢。俗话说:上赶子的都不是买卖

我现在就是要做到从内心深处自立,对单位以正确的眼光看,平衡和单位的关系,脱离焦躁的情绪,这样才能更好的做好工作,过好自己的生活。

很多事情可做可不做,如何判断什么事情不必要做。我的标准是,那些你花了精力,别人未必会觉得有价值的事情,即使有人请你做,你也要尽可能将它们舍弃掉,集中精力把更重要的事情做好。

重复一下:要事第一,只做重要的事情。更不要做出力不讨好的事情。

我思考了一段的时间,没有思考清楚吴军老师问题的答案。我把问题记录与此,以后还要认真思考。

第欧根尼的底气是从哪里来的?

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